HOW TO ELOPE IN WISCONSIN

Written By Jaclyn Fields

How to Elope in Wisconsin: A Simple, Stress-Free Guide for Couples

If you’re dreaming of a peaceful, intimate, nature-filled wedding day, eloping in Wisconsin is such a beautiful option. From quiet forest trails to glowing lakefront overlooks, this state gives you space to slow down, breathe, and make your vows in a way that feels intentional and authentically you.

Here’s a simple, step-by-step guide to help you plan your Wisconsin elopement without the stress, confusion, or 27 browser tabs open at once.

1. Choose Your Location + Season

Start with the vibe you want.
Do you picture Lake Michigan cliffs at sunrise? A quiet pine forest? A snowy lodge? A cozy chapel in Door County?

Wisconsin has it all so just decide what scenery feels like “your story,” then pick the season that matches your goals (and your tolerance for bugs or cold!).

Tip: Some state parks require permits for ceremonies or photography, so always double-check your location.

2. Apply for Your Wisconsin Marriage License

Good news: You can apply in any Wisconsin county, and the license is valid statewide.
Each county has its own policies and waiting periods, so check ahead, some require 3 days, some allow same-day waivers.

Here are helpful county links with official info:

You’ll typically need:

  • Photo ID

  • Birth certificate

  • Proof of address

  • Social Security number

  • Divorce/death paperwork if previously married

Tip: Bring everything in a folder so you’re staying organized.

3. Choose Your Officiant (or Self-Solemnize!)

Yep—Wisconsin is one of the states where you can self-solemnize, meaning you can legally marry yourselves without an officiant if that’s your vibe.
You can also bring a pastor, judge, or ordained minister, whatever feels right for your ceremony.

Official details here:
https://www.dhs.wisconsin.gov/publications/p01060.pdf

Tip: If you’re self-solemnizing, plan a meaningful moment like reading vows, prayer, or a unity action so you still have structure.

4. Bring Two Witnesses

Wisconsin requires two witnesses over age 18 to sign your license.
These can be:

  • Your photographer (hi 👋)

  • A friend

  • Parents

  • Even a friendly hiker you meet on the trail

It’s very low-pressure, just two adults willing to sign.

5. Have Your Ceremony + Sign the License

After you’ve exchanged vows in your dream spot, you’ll sign your marriage license with your officiant or through self-solemnization.

The signed license must be returned to the Register of Deeds in the county where you applied within 3 days of the ceremony (Double check with the office this is accurate). This is what makes the marriage legal.

Tip: Take a cute “signing photo” a great way to remember to sign the license after all the excitement of saying I do!

6. Plan the Experience You Want

This is where eloping gets fun.
Think:

  • A sunrise kayak or hike

  • A lakeside picnic

  • A cozy dinner at a boutique lodge

  • Champagne pop on a cliff

  • A first dance under string lights

  • Worship or prayer time together

  • Reading letters from your family

Your day doesn’t have to feel rushed or stiff. It can be slow, intentional, and full of joy.

Why Couples Love Eloping in Wisconsin

  • Easy, straightforward marriage laws

  • Affordable, flexible planning

  • Beautiful landscapes year-round

  • Quiet parks + intimate venues

  • Perfect for faith-filled, nature-loving couples

Whether you picture cliffs, forests, waterfalls, farmland, or snowy pine trails, Wisconsin has so many beautiful backdrops for your vows.

Final Thoughts

Eloping in Wisconsin doesn’t need to be complicated.
Once you have your license, your location, and your people, you’re set! The rest is just creating a day that reflects your love, your faith, and the kind of life you want to build together.

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Jaclyn Fields
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